A LinkedIn message has one job at each stage: get to the next stage. A connection request should get accepted. An opener should get a reply. A follow-up should restart a stalled conversation. And only at the end should a message ask for a call. Here are templates for each, plus why they work.
The rules behind every message that gets a reply
- Make it about them. Their role, their company, their post. Not you.
- Keep it short. If it needs scrolling on a phone, cut it.
- One idea per message. One question, one point, one ask.
- Easy to answer. A question they can reply to in ten seconds.
- Sound like a person. Write the way you'd talk at an event.
Connection request templates
Role-based
Trigger-based
Content-based
Why they work: they're specific, they don't sell, and they give a believable reason to connect.
Opening message templates (after they accept)
The question opener
The observation opener
The resource opener
Why they work: each one gives the prospect an easy, low-commitment way to reply.
Follow-up templates
Follow-up 1 (3–4 days later): add value
Follow-up 2 (about a week later): make it easy to say no
Why they work: each follow-up brings something new instead of "just bumping this", and the last one lowers the pressure, which often triggers a reply.
Turning interest into a booked call
Offer specific times, keep the call short, and send the calendar invite immediately with one line on what you'll cover.
Mistakes that kill reply rates
- Pitching in the connection request. It gets ignored or declined.
- The pitch slap. A long sales message seconds after someone accepts.
- Fake personalization. "I loved your profile!" fools nobody.
- "Just following up." Every follow-up should add something.
- Asking for 30–60 minutes up front. Ask for 15–20 minutes.
- Copy-paste at scale. Identical messages get reported, which can restrict your account.
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